Leadership Messages
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Foggy-minded, Pillow-haired and Bleary-eyed |
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Monday, 28 June 2010 13:47 |
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Deconstructing and Demystifying the Morning Minyan By Glen Gilbert: What is it about the morning minyan that makes it so misunderstood and mysterious for so many? The vast majority of JCCH congregants know it mostly as a quick reference in blast e-mails or the subject of quickly forgotten pleas for attendees during Shabbat service announcements. Its status, it would appear, is usually relegated to that of an afterthought. I know it was for me. All that changed as a function of a discussion I had with Rabbi Glazer over a year ago. He was bemoaning the fact that reaching the requisite attendance for the minyan had “just been missed” that morning. There were nine Jewish adults vs. the minimum ten required to read the Torah, recite Kaddish and engage in the more meaningful parts of the morning (or Shacharit) service. The Rabbi went on to share with me that God or the Shekhinah weeps when a minyan is missed. Feeling sad about the Rabbi’s comments and driven by an unusual burst of desire to do mitzvot, I offered myself up as someone who “in a pinch” could be called upon to run over to the JCCH if it would help complete a morning minyan. I gave the Rabbi my cell phone number and promptly forgot about our conversation. The Rabbi didn’t. A week later, I got a call at 7:15AM asking if I could, in fact, attend that morning’s minyan as they otherwise likely would come up short. This leads me to an important rule that will be found neither in Torah nor Talmud: If you give your cell phone number to a rabbi and say that you will consider attending morning minyan, sooner or later (most likely sooner) that phone will ring. Before you know it, you’ll be hustling off to shul, foggy-minded, pillow-haired and bleary-eyed. You’ll likely be wearing yesterday’s pair of pants (found crumpled on the closet floor), a slightly ripped polo shirt usually reserved for yard work and a pair of unmatched socks (note: trust me, this is perfectly OK and, as I’ve since learned, is haute couture for morning minyan). And so I was careening down the Hutch on this particular Thursday morning (within prescribed speed limits of course), likely taking God’s name in vain as I waited for school buses to engorge their precious cargo so they could move on, banking on two wheels into the JCCH driveway, leaving rubber on Norton Shargel Drive (to the extent that one can do so in a Ford Edge) and screeching to a halt in front of the small sanctuary. It was 7:30. I wasn’t certain what was in store for the rest of my day, but I took pride in knowing that already at this early hour, I had broken the land speed record between 24 White Deer Lane and 130 Union Avenue To be quite clear, I had more than a little trepidation walking into the small sanctuary that day. I envisioned those attending minyan as resembling Talmudic scholars with long flowing white beards, talit the size of bed sheets and speaking mostly in tongues. My impression probably came right out of some 16th century woodcut I had seen during Hebrew School days. My perception couldn’t have been more ill-founded. Those at JCCH minyans represent all ages, both genders, and every conceivable level of Jewish knowledge and experience. They are gracious, upbeat and make one feel thoroughly welcome and at home. For those, like myself, who would like to know more about navigating through the service, the Rabbi, Cantor or one of the “minyanaires” are more-than-happy to help. For others who simply would like to pray or reflect by themselves, their privacy and space are completely respected. The setting is intimate and, frankly, the prayers take on new meaning when one can focus so completely on them. The Rabbi offers brief spiritual “nuggets” along the way (including a d’var torah at the conclusion of the service) which not only are insightful but also can easily be applied to our day-to-day activities. Not unlike morning exercise of the physical kind (resulting in endorphins coursing through our systems), one feels a sense of accomplishment and well-being of a more spiritual kind following these services. The minyan lasts no more than an hour and, in effect, is a highly abbreviated version of the Saturday morning service. That said, minyan provides an easy means of appreciating the structure and significance of what goes on across the foyer during Shabbat. Minyan also serves a most important purpose for those in our community who are “saying Kaddish” out of respect for departed loved ones. They can only do so if a full minyan is present. In this regard, being part of a minyan is a way of “paying forward” for those times that you may want or need to recite Kaddish. Your participation—if only occasionally—helps ensure that we are there for one another as a community. For me, this is one of the most important and gratifying aspects of being a member of the JCCH. It’s worth noting that after minyan there is a light breakfast served. For those not catching a train or otherwise getting on with their day, they can spend a few extra minutes noshing on bagels, cream cheese, coffee and, with luck, any one of a number of leftovers from an event that took place the night or weekend before (the Cantor is particularly adept at unearthing such treasure). The talk is light and upbeat, spanning topics from Israel to sports to the weather. I remember one particularly spirited conversation revolving around the epic, Beowulf (and when, may I ask, was the last time you had a really good Beowulf discussion? Be honest now.) All this said, I hope you will find the time to daven at a morning minyan. I readily acknowledge that life intervenes—as it often does for me—thus preventing attendance. On the other hand, if you’re able to attend even one or two minyans a year (coinciding, perhaps, with a family yartzeit or on vacation days when attendees are especially needed), you will be doing a mitzvah for the JCCH community and, if I may be so bold, enjoying some spiritual nourishment for yourself as you begin your day. Minyan is typically held on Monday and Thursdays at 7AM and on Sundays at 9AM (you may want to double-check the JCCH calendar, particular during major secular and Jewish holidays). During the summer months, we are “combining forces” with KTI, davening at their synagogue in Port Chester on Sundays and back at the JCCH for weekday minyanim. If I’m in our small sanctuary when you are, I promise to be the first to wish you “boker tov” (“good morning”), show you where we are in the prayer book and extend a heartfelt thanks for joining us. |
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Last Updated ( Monday, 28 June 2010 14:07 )
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United Synagogues 'Sulam' Conference |
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Tuesday, 01 June 2010 11:50 |
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By Glen Gilbert: I had the privilege of representing the JCCH at the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism’s “Sulam” Conference from April 22-25 in Reisterstown, Maryland. It was a satisfying experience on a number of different levels and, as you’ll soon see, involved an unexpected bit of “bershert” for myself. As context, the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism is one of the pillars of the Conservative movement. The USCJ works with its member congregations in advancing educational, spiritual and charitable programming. The JCCH has been a member of the USCJ since our founding in 1954. We are currently in the process of reestablishing a strong, goals-oriented, mutually-beneficial working relationship. My attendance at this conference was an outgrowth of our commitment to work more closely together. Sulam (Hebrew for “ladder”) is a program run annually by the USCJ with the objective of offering insight, enlightenment and spiritual motivation to lay leadership. This, the 37th Sulam, met and exceeded these ambitious objectives. Forty of us from synagogues around the country participated along with Bob Leventhal (a consultant from the Alban Institute who has helped guide the development of the JCCH strategic plan) as well as three rabbis (including Charles Savenor, Executive Director of the Metropolitan New York Chapter of the USCJ). It is worth noting that Rabbi Savenor arrived a day late to the conference so he could deliver a presentation to our Board of Trustees on how the USCJ will collaborate with the JCCH in strengthening our youth and leadership development programs. At the time of this writing, we are in the process of arranging meetings with Rabbi Savenor and key USCJ staffers designed to advance these critical objectives (more on our progress in future editions of The Scribe). The surroundings of the Pearlstone Center took us far away from our hometowns and, for that matter, much of civilization. The setting was very rustic. The accommodations were simple and basic. I was paired with a roommate with whom I got along very well—not unimportant given our close, no-frills quarters (think Bert and Ernie). That said, there wasn’t much time spent in the room as we participated in workshops, presentations and services from early morning until late evening. It was hard but satisfying work. I was struck by how virtually all of the synagogues represented at Sulam face the same issues we do at the JCCH---from the most mundane to the most fundamental. Not unexpectedly, there was a good amount of focus on financial sustainability, membership growth and the balance between lay and clerical leadership. Presentations were delivered on these and other topics. Best practices were shared freely among the participants, especially during break-out sessions. Bob Leventhal gave a particularly inspiring presentation on “the charismatic organization.” He discussed how a synagogue can develop a high degree of social capital such that it attracts congregants, volunteers, donors and champions who, in turn, make available resources like money, skills, sway in the policy arena, media attention and new friends and followers. I would like to think that the JCCH can and will enjoy this level of vibrancy and “charisma.” Sulam was also satisfying from a spiritual standpoint. We participated daily in Shacharit, Minha and Ma’ariv services. We read from a Torah on loan from Temple Beth El in neighboring Baltimore. Prayers were offered and songs sung before and after each meal, so much so that, at times, I thought I might be attending a Camp Ramah or USY reunion. In fact, a show of hands indicated that virtually every Sulam participant (with the exception of myself and a couple of others) were alums of either or both of these organizations. Finally, Sulam was satisfying from an interpersonal standpoint. I found the participants to be warm, enthusiastic, stimulating and fully committed to their respective congregations. I’m quite certain that I will remain friends with several of my fellow “sulamis” and that we will continue to provide counsel to one another. In fact, e-mails have already been flying back and forth between us and a Facebook “fan page” is up and active. In our last session, we went “around the horn” and commented on our perceptions of the past four days. I shared with the group, as I will with you now, that I experienced a wonderful bit of “beshert” (or fate) before the conference. My dad, while ill, nonetheless gets great joy when I share with him what I—and the rest of my family—are up to. When I told him about Sulam and, specifically, who sponsored it, his face brightened as he proudly pronounced, “United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism! My uncle, Louie Moss, took the United Synagogue through the Depression. He was one of their great leaders. You can look it up.” Well, I did just that. I “Googled” Louis Moss when I returned home and confirmed that he was, in fact, President of the USCJ from 1931 until 1944. I even found some of his speeches from that era and discovered that were one to substitute “Great Recession” for “Depression,” many passages would be every bit as relevant today as they were 70 years ago, especially with respect to the consistency, continuity and importance of Jewish values. This gave me an unexpected connection to the Conservative movement--one I had not known about. Rabbi Glazer subsequently informed me it meant I had a dose of “yichis” or good bloodline. Who knew? Certainly I didn’t. What I do know is that Sulam only deepened my connection to the Conservative movement and, hopefully, will make me a better leader. I look forward to sharing and applying that which I learned in the months and years to come. |
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Last Updated ( Tuesday, 01 June 2010 11:53 )
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Changing of the Seasons - By Sue Pearson |
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Friday, 23 April 2010 09:02 |
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With May comes the changing of the seasons, and at the JCCH, the changing of the Trustees of the Board and its Officers. With the shift from Winter to Spring, there might be snow, rain and thunder, but by May, the weather has turned sunny and warm. And, like the weather, our shul goes through its annual transformations with a few bumps, but ultimately, we arrive at a calmer place. This year has been no different. Starting in August of last year, the Nominating Committee, co-chaired by Paul Hendler and Debbie Schiff, (with Glen Aber, Shari Aronson, Spencer Hart, Dawn Berman, Susan Fisher, Bruce Mendelsohn, Lisa Rosenfeld, Ken Brown and Marge Leffler making up the full committee), started to build a slate of nominees to be approved by the Congregation. After several months of deliberations, the committee was able to fill the slate with outstanding nominees from many different constituencies for both Trustees and Officers, save one office. And this one office was the President. And here was our storm. Much creative thinking ensued; could we have co-presidents, tri presidents, a Presidential Council, the new Chairman serving as President immediately? Many meetings were held and countless phone calls were placed, but to no avail. At the February meeting of the Board of Trustees the slate was presented without a President. A great deal more discussion followed, and in the end, after many thanks to the Committee, they were sent back to work, along with new additions to the committee, Susan Coby and Glen Gilbert. It is in times of crisis when leaders emerge, and a ray of light shines through. We are very fortunate to have had this happen. Although Karen Goldstick has been our President for the past two years, dedicating many of her days and evenings to the JCCH, she very generously and graciously offered to remain as our President for another year – but within a new model of leadership. This model will not only make it easier for Karen to continue in this position for another year, but will also continue to develop leadership in others, as well. The model will be a more collaborative one with many of the President’s responsibilities distributed to members of the Executive Committee. For instance, - Glen Gilbert, incoming Chairman of the Board, will join weekly meetings with Rabbi Glazer and Karen Goldstick, and will also coordinate Shabbat morning Bima participation by our leadership,
- Joan Brustman, Vice President of Administration, will be our administrative and office liaison,
- Abby Mendelsohn, Vice President of Membership, and I will be the lay representatives to the staff’s weekly meetings,
- Susan Coby, incoming Vice President of Personnel, will oversee yearly staff reviews and updates,
- And the President’s Message in the Scribe will now become the Leadership Message, each month written by a different member of the Executive Committee.
This model more closely aligns with that of other synagogues, is far more equitable and will allow Board members to grow in their leadership roles. This latter point brings me to another important discussion – leadership development. The idea of leadership development has long been on the minds of many within our shul, with its importance magnified in the wake of efforts to fill this year’s Presidential and Board slates. In order to formalize these thoughts, in September, the Trustees passed a motion to change our bylaws (thus sending the concept to the Congregation for a vote), changing the current “Nominating Committee” to become the “Nominating and Leadership Development Committee.” If passed, this new committee would continue its role in finding congregants who can lend their time and experience to our Board, but, in the words of Bob Leventhal, our congregational consultant from The Alban Institute, would also start to “throw out the net” to identify new leadership prospects. The committee would cultivate and train those members who will become our future leaders – whether they chair a small event or Chair the JCCH. To continue my weather metaphor from above, the old adage, “April showers bring May flowers,” comes to mind and has special meaning this year. The recent thunder has shaken us into taking positive action, but we look forward to seeing brilliant colors soon.
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 29 April 2010 21:42 )
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Wednesday, 24 March 2010 08:05 |
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The Vision to Action Workshop that took place on Sunday morning, March 7, was a tremendous success. Over 90 congregants gathered in the ballroom to participate in a group visioning exercise facilitated by our UJA consultant, Bob Levanthal. After Rabbi Glazer and I spoke, we broke into task forces - worship, family engagement, leadership development, affinity groups, warm and welcoming and communications - to brainstorm new ideas and dreams for our future. For those of you who did not attend, I would like to share with you my address of that morning: Let me start by sharing with you some hard facts about our synagogue. Over the past five years we have decreased from 450 families to 407; religious school enrollment has remained flat at about 205 students indicating that our congregation is getting younger and that a higher percentage of us have children in the religious school. Enrollment in the Early Childhood Center has decreased from 103 children to 56 children. All this while our operating budget stayed flat at about 2.5 million, translating into a significant deficit. So, at about this time last year the leadership of the JCCH decided to come to grips with these facts and plan for the future. How could we stay in business with shrinking revenue and flat operating expenses? Could we re-envision our synagogue and brand ourselves to be in line with the needs and attitudes of the congregation. Could we figure out a way to increase revenue? We decided to do two things - make a financial appeal on Kol Nidre and create a strategic planning committee. I am happy to report that we are succeeding on both fronts. So let me give you more details. The first piece of good news is that the Kol Nidre appeal was so successful this year that we expect to end this fiscal year at the end of April in the black having rebounded from a $160,000 deficit. WOW! The truth is even with a shrinking membership there have always been members who are willing to be very generous in helping us make ends meets. But we don’t want to have to be so uneasy from year to year and hope that yet another angel will emerge. It just doesn’t seem like sound business practice to me. The second piece of good news is that the strategic planning committee is sowing the seeds of revitalization and an astounding number of you have already participated in the process. The culmination of all our combined efforts will result in a plan; let’s call it a narrative that will describe initiatives for the coming years backed by a financial campaign to begin over the summer months. This will be a comprehensive plan to fund everything we have put in place and all the wonderful ideas that will emerge from our Vision to Action Workshop. We already know that there are members ready to step up for the long term and help us realize our long term dreams if we create a compelling story about how we intend to enrich Jewish life here at the Jewish Community Center of Harrison. This committee has been working for more than six months now. We have dissected the survey results, reviewed all parlor meeting comments and as a result have identified the six task forces before you. I want you all to know that we are listening. We have already implemented changes – low hanging fruit as we say in the biz, and many more will be on the way as a result of your work today. Have you seen the greeters at Friday night and Shabbat services, have you read through the News and Previews flyer distributed at services, have you noticed the change in the Rabbi’s sermons and have you noticed that we are getting more explanations, in English, during services. These are all little changes that are already in place and they are all as a result of your input. Keep up the good work and keep those ideas flowing. Our success depends on you and we are here to make your connection to Judaism more spirited, meaningful and accessible. Thank you for your participation. |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 29 April 2010 21:45 )
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Vision To Action Workshop |
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Thursday, 18 February 2010 13:52 |
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On Sunday March 7th at 9:00 am we will be conducting a Vision to Action Workshop, the last major milestone of the Strategic Planning Committee’s work with the congregation. Bob Leventhal, our expert consultant from The Alban Institute, provided to us through a grant from UJA, will be facilitating the workshop and has provided guidance throughout the strategic planning process. I have attended many of his workshops in the past few years and I expect you will find him engaging and full of helpful ideas. After this meeting a narrative will be composed describing our plan to enrich Jewish living at the Jewish Community Center of Harrison. For those of you who attend the workshop, which I hope will be all of you, expect to roll up your sleeves and get to work brainstorming on six different task forces – worship, leadership development, family engagement, mentoring, warm and welcoming, and communications. The goal is to share your ideas, further develop some of them and create a plan and budget to implement those that fulfill the vision. Based on the survey and parlor meetings, the strategic planning committee developed a check list for deciding which ideas to implement. Here’s what we call our guiding principles: - The religious preference for the JCCH is Conservative
- We need to be warm and welcoming
- Services need to be accessible and/or familiar
- Congregants expect to connect with Rabbi
- Children are the gateway to parents and grandparents
- Life cycle events should be used as opportunities to create greater connections
- We need to continue to provide a quality Jewish religious education
- We need to direct our resources to those who want to be involved
- The Conservative Jewish tenets of greatest interest are ethics for living in the modern world and the importance of modern Israel.
At the conclusion of this workshop, task forces may meet again, as they decide is necessary. The narrative will be developed by Florence Kraut and Jonathan Goldstick, co-chairs of the strategic planning committee. The narrative will describe our game plan for the coming years and we expect it to tell a compelling story. No doubt, significant funds will be needed to support this plan and a fundraising campaign will be initiated over the summer. The last time we launched a full congregational campaign was ten years ago when we built a new school wing and small sanctuary. This time our campaign will be about enriching our synagogue life. Last time it was about bricks and mortar; this time it will be about ideas and programming. Please join us. |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 29 April 2010 21:46 )
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